Politics are depressing
It's happened to me a few times by bosses and both times I quit. Once I told my bf at the time and he beat the guy up and got in trouble. That's another reason some girls don't say anything, they know their friends and family will kill the guy. Better to let the law handle it, but sometimes they just won't then what do you do?
Same here. When I was in highschool I had a female coach who constantly fondled me when we were doing routines in gymnastics, she would always grab for the crotch and make jokes about it. She pushed her fingers into me in front AND behind through my tights, I was so young and nieve that I didn't do anything about it but I warned my sister about her. Looking back I wish I'd spoken up.
I stay out of situations where a guy could grope me let alone RAPE me I stay with friends and a lot of people say "don't criticize the victim!" but sorry, you don't go in a place, alone, like go in a guy's br and not expect he's going to try something. Don't dress like a whore if don't want to be treated like one. Sorry that's how I feel. Also, learn to defend yourself. Get some mace or a even a gun if you are oging to be in dangerous places like a parking lot late at night etc. That's my idea of feminsim.
I was groped by a female teacher in elementary and in highschool I had stuff like male teachers talking rude around me but I was also repeatedly touched by a woman who was supposed to be tutoring me and she tried to proposition me or get her to meet her outside of school or go out with her. I went to a movie with her on one occassion with a friend along for safety and she was feeling my thigh and working her hand towards my crotch but I kept pushing her off, she wouldn't take the hint and lay off.
At work I had a guy who in an after work party was drunk and kept rubbing his body on mine and trying to get me alone and followed me to the woman's and pushed me up against the sink area and bent me over backwards pushing on me laying on me and I had to knee him to get him off. Always after that he treated me like shit and made ass comments and finally I left. Everyone knew how he was but he was a top seller and he was immune from the boss or trouble.
Another time I was out with friends and a cute guy and I were all that was left and I made out with him some in the bar but I didn't really feel right about 'going all the way' he wanted to just come up to my place for a coffee or smoke a joint or sometihng he was really insistent and put his foot in the door when he insisted in walking me up. I just stated talking really loud and one of my roommates (who was a man, I lived with a couple) came out to see what was up and the guy gave up but if noone had been home I had begun to suspect the guy was really violent and I might have gotten raped at that time.
I'm goign to sound like I have these all the time but ANOTHER time I went out drinking with a gf and we both went to bed in the same bed, both drunk off our ass I was more passed out than sleeping with just a sleep tee and panties same with her, well I wake up shes between my legs pushing her thigh against my crotch and kissing my neck and face. I was still too out of it, I think I had taken some pain killers too and she was heavier than me so I struggled to roll her off me and I was saying stop , get off, no I dont want to do this and she kept humping my leg until I guess she got off then she spooned me the rest of the night and I was really weirded out. It completely ruined our friendship if she had been upfront I might have been into it but I didnt appreciate being molested while passed out. WHen I woke up the next day I realized she had removed my panties before getting between my legs. If she had been a guy I would have been raped :p more than likely.
Seems to me that the rules have changed and they are trying to judge people with todays rules. Used to be sneaking a kiss or a quick feel was considered rude maybe but not a jailing offense. Plus lots of these girls and women are just getting off on being victims which everyone wants to be these days.